Tom's Blog

What About MY Miracle?

If you are like me, you have prayed for a miracle.Or several. Or many. Miracles.I’ve tried to use the power of prayer to change the mind of God. M...

Return to Love

We think that we are brokenand maybe we areand maybe we aren’t (really)but that topic is for a different day.We are most certainly broken open.Bro...

9/11

The choice is always ours.Always. Even whenespecially whenit feels as if there is no choice.As if our backs are up against the wall. We can choos...

Suicide

Suicide. Although, to be honest,I have considered it myself,more than once,over these past 20+ years, I still can’t imaginenot really(thank God)w...

Will You Heal?

It’s the language we use to describe the death of our loved one that tells the story.The story of whether or not we will heal.And our language i...

Wander In The Darkness

We avoid darknessat all cost.From the earliest agewe’ve been taughtthat the darkness is scarypainfulfrighteningdangerousand even evil.We’ve been...

It's Okay to Exlpode

It's Okay to Exlpode
  The world needs you at yourbestmost radiant self. And the road many of us are on to get thereincludes the death of someone we lovedearly. Do no...

Stop Everything

Grief is not the enemy. But oh do I know how it can feel like one.The enemy.Especially at first.  Grief is actually our automatic, internal respo...

If You Are New to Grief

If You Are New to Grief
If you are new. Brand newto this thing called grief. If someone you loveso dearlyjustdied. I would transport you to a beautiful roomwith the...

Workshop: Your Next Step

If you’re ready to discover Your Next Step I can help you. If you are living with the death of someone you lovethere is a next step for you to tak...

Are There Really 5 Stages of Grief?

I’m going to come right and say it. If you are working with a therapist,counselor,social worker,grief expert,minister,priest,or anyone else who i...