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Working With the Shaman

Working With the Shaman
Sunday April 15th I was in Scottsdale  to give the Saturday night Keynoteand two workshops atHelping Parents Heal first International Conference. ...

"Complicated Grief"

What if I told you that the appropriate, natural, healthy and even healing response when someone you love dearly dies is to kick, scream, roll aro...

Ten Years Later

TEN YEARS LATER:  10 Things I’ve Learned Since My Most Amazing Son Rory Brennan Zuba Finished His Earthly Work and Left His Physical Body1....

March 2015 Webinar Question #1

We had every intention of recording Saturday’s Worldwide Webinar and making it available to you this week. Interestingly, the Universe had othe...

8-Week Program: YOUR NEXT STEP

     YOUR NEXT STEP     If someone you love has died, and you feel stuck, or sick and tired of feeling “sick and tired,” or you’re wonder...

Why Do People Abandon Us?

Yesterday I wrote about feeling abandoned following the death of someone you love dearly. I explained that it’s not personal. It’s almost u...

If You Are Feeling Abandoned

It is essential that you realize and remember (which is why I am telling you) that the world we have collectively created the world we live ...

Broken Open

We think that we are broken and maybe we are and maybe we aren’t (really) but that topic is for a different day.We are most c...

What I Know About Cancer. Today.

Cancer. Not my wife Trici who died in 1999 or our first-born child our daughter Erin who died in 1990 but ...

The Truth About Crying

From a very early agethe world has told usover and over and overagainthat it's not okay to cry.That crying is a sign of weakness.That there is sh...

"Everyone Grieves Differently." Really?

“Everyone grieves differently.” “No one should tell me how to grieve.” “There isn’t a right way to grieve and a wrong way to grieve.” Every da...

Loving Rory

Not sure that I’ve ever written about this before. My son Rory was due on July 18, 1991one yearto the daythat his older sister Erindied suddenly.H...