Tom's Blog
A New You Emerging
My 18-month-old daughter Erin died in 1990.
My 43-year-old wife Trici died in 1999.
My 13-year-old son Rory died in 2005.
I have l...
We Walk Through Fire
You are stronger than you think.
You are stronger than you know.
You are stronger than you feel ... right now.
You have already walk...
How Do I Start to Heal?
In order to heal you must MOURN.
You must push all of your grief up and out.
Contrary to the old way of doing grief - denying, su...
Building Bridges of Reconnection When People Mourn Differently
I recently received this message from a mother who is feeling disconnected from her daughter one year after the suicide of her son.
Hello To...
Is "Keeping Busy" the Answer?
Conventional wisdom, many well-meaning friends and family members, and even others who are a little further down their own grief path than you may ...