Daily Thought

12 Truths

Posted by Tom Zuba on January 30, 2015 3 Comments
12 Truths to Transform the way we “do grief” worldwideby honoring the gifts “death” offers.“Are you mad at God?” my priest friend asked that summer of 1990 as we planned my baby daughter Erin’s funeral.  “The closest I ever got to God was holding ...

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Keep the Conversation Alive

Posted by Tom Zuba on December 11, 2012 3 Comments
A person you love departs the earth and then dies a second death if you stop talking to them. You may not see them, but they are here and waiting in the wings for you. ♥ ~ Kristine Carlson

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The healing begins...

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 22, 2012 0 Comments
"The healing begins when we can start to feel more gratitude that our child came into our life than despair and outrage that our child died. The gratitude is what heals the despair." ~ Ram Dass

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When You Know Better

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 11, 2012 0 Comments
You did what you knew how to do. And when you knew better, you did better. - Maya Angelou

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Perception and Beliefs

Posted by Tom Zuba on September 23, 2012 1 Comment
“Our perception gathers evidence to prove that our beliefs are right.” ~ The Four Agreements

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Creating a new dream

Posted by Tom Zuba on July 03, 2012 0 Comments
“The death of someone I love may end the dream I carried for my life.  If – and when – I am ready, I can gather the courage, take a step in the direction of trust, and dare to begin to create a new dream for my life.” ~ Tom Zuba

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Giving life a "go" again

Posted by Tom Zuba on July 03, 2012 2 Comments
“Most people whose lives have been shattered, broken, turned upside down a-million-times-over by the death of someone they love…are willing to give life a “go” again.  Not to survive, not to cope ~ TO LIVE!”  ~ Tom Zuba

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Letting go of sadness

Posted by Tom Zuba on July 03, 2012 1 Comment
“We think it’s our sadness, our anger, the totality of our grief that connects us with our loved ones. We fear that if we let go of our sadness, or our anger...we’ll lose our connection.  Not true.” ~ Tom Zuba

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Making space for the light

Posted by Tom Zuba on July 03, 2012 1 Comment
 “It’s not about denying the dark…it’s about making space for the light, alongside the dark." ~ Tom Zuba

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Grief

Posted by Tom Zuba on July 02, 2012 0 Comments
“Grief is the internal, automatic response to loss.” ~ Tom Zuba

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