Belief Creates Experience
What you choose to BELIEVE
to be true about your grief
will be your experience.
You will create that experience for yourself.
If you believe you will never "recover"
or "be happy again"
you will not.
Do you understand that?
If you believe you are experiencing "complicated grief"
which needs a special secret code
or 16 or 24 or 133 step program
or a super-duper pill
to cope with,
or do whatever you'd like to do,
as opposed to mourning in a safe, sacred space
then that will be your experience.
and only you
will determine the speed at which you heal
or if you heal at all.
The words you use
to describe your grief journey
tell the story
of whether or not you will heal.
What story are you telling?
and the world?
Choose your words consciously
Create the experience you want to live.
Now you know.
If these words resonate with you, and you'd like to explore A New Way to Do Grief with me one-one-one I coach clients all over the world using Skype, FaceTime, Zoom and Facebook Chat. You may email me at firstname.lastname@example.org to discuss details.
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