Forgiveness is to offer no resistance to life – to allow life to live through you. The alternatives are pain and suffering, a greatly restricted flow of life energy, and in many cases physical disease.

    Eckhart Tolle
    The Power of Now

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  • Teaching A New Way to Do Grief

    Welcome.  I am glad you are here.

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    I am a Life Coach, 
    and Speaker
    teaching a new way to do grief.

    Please subscribe to my Newsletter so we can stay in touch by clicking: Newsletter   

    For 20+ years I have been learning to live life
    with the death of my
    18-month-old daughter Erin in 1990,
    my 43-year-old wife Trici in 1999,
    and my 13-year-old son Rory in 2005.  

    During that time,
    I discovered a NEW WAY to do grief; 
    a way rooted in hope that offers you
    the promise of a new, full, joy-filled life.

    Please explore this site and discover the tools I have created for you.
    Use these tools to heal, create,
    and live the life you were born to live,
    not in spite of the fact that someone you love has died,
    but because someone you love has died.

    To work with me one-on-one ~ in person if you are in the Rockford, Illinois area or via Skype, FaceTime or Facebook Chat if you are anywhere else in the world ~ email me at tomzuba@aol.com.

    To watch a preview of my 80-minute Video Program, 
    "Transforming the Way We Do Grief." 

    Make sure you

    "like" my Facebook Page and become part of our Healing Circle,

    subscribe to my Newsletter so we can stay in touch,  

    read my Blog 

    check me out on Pinterest,

    and watch some of my YouTube videos.

    To learn more about me and this new way to do grief please watch this recent interview.


    To learn even more about my 20+ year journey read
    Tom's story.

    Hope and peace to you,
    P.S.  I was on Oprah in April, 1999 about 3 1/2 months after my wife Trici died.  Here's the clip: