If we can allow it to, grief may lead, at times, to an even deeper love and relationship with someone who has died.

    John E. Welshons
    Awakening From Grief

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  • Teaching A New Way to Do Grief

    Welcome.  I am glad you found me.

    I am an Author, 
    and Life Coach
    teaching a new way to do grief.


    My new book, Permission to Mourn: A New Way to Do Grief, has just been released.  If you are in the Rockford, IL area you may purchase the book at the CherryVale Barnes and Noble and both Meg Daily Grind stores ~ Alpine/Guilford and Perryville.   You may also purchased the book in paperback or as an eBook online at Amazon.com or at barnesandnoble.com.  You can order my book from any bookstore in the world no matter where you live.  Autographed copies can be purchased directly from me.  To learn more click:  I'd Like an Autographed Copy

    You and yours are cordially invited to join me on 2-22 at 2:22pm for 2:22/Ten Years Later: 10 Things I've Learned Since My Son Rory Brennan Zuba Finished His Earthly Work and Left His Physical Body.  Click here:  Your Invitation

    Please subscribe to my Newsletter so we can stay in touch by clicking: Newsletter   

    For 20+ years I have been learning to live life
    with the death of my
    18-month-old daughter Erin in 1990,
    my 43-year-old wife Trici in 1999,
    and my 13-year-old son Rory in 2005.  

    During that time,
    I discovered a NEW WAY to do grief; 
    a way rooted in hope that offers you
    the promise of a new, full, joy-filled life.

    Please explore this site and discover the tools I have created for you.

    Use these tools to heal, create,
    and live the life you were born to live,
    not in spite of the fact that someone you love has died,
    but because someone you love has died.

    To work with me one-on-one ~ in person if you are in the Rockford, Illinois area or via Skype, FaceTime or Facebook Chat if you are anywhere else in the world ~ email me at tomzuba@aol.com.

    To watch a preview of my 80-minute Video Program, 
    click "Transforming the Way We Do Grief." 

    Make sure you

    ** "like" my Facebook Page and become part of our Healing Circle,

    ** subscribe to my Newsletter so we can stay in touch,  

    ** read my Blog,  

    ** check me out on Pinterest,

    ** and watch some of my YouTube videos.

    To learn more about me and this new way to do grief please watch this recent interview.


    To learn even more about my 20+ year journey read
    Tom's story.

    Hope and peace to you,
    P.S.  I was on Oprah in April, 1999 about 3 1/2 months after my wife Trici died.  Here's the clip: