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Ten Years Later

Posted by Tom Zuba on May 22, 2015 0 Comments
TEN YEARS LATER:  10 Things I’ve Learned Since My Most Amazing Son Rory Brennan Zuba Finished His Earthly Work and Left His Physical Body1.  Consciously choose to remember that you are light. Choose light over darkness, andlove over fear. Say yes ...

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March 2015 Webinar Question #1

Posted by Tom Zuba on March 31, 2015 0 Comments
We had every intention of recording Saturday’s Worldwide Webinar and making it available to you this week. Interestingly, the Universe had other plans and that did not happen. So ... each day, I will share one of the questions one of our participa...

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8-Week Program: YOUR NEXT STEP

Posted by Tom Zuba on March 27, 2015 5 Comments
   YOUR NEXT STEP  If someone you love has died,and you feel stuck,or sick and tired of feeling “sick and tired,”or you’re wondering if you’ll ever feel alive again ~ really alive,or there are just some days when you wonder why you were even born,...

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Why Do People Abandon Us?

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 14, 2014 3 Comments
Yesterday I wrote about feeling abandoned following the death of someone you love dearly. I explained that it’s not personal. It’s almost universal. People you love.And that you thought loved you.People you trust...

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If You Are Feeling Abandoned

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 14, 2014 0 Comments
It is essential that you realize and remember (which is why I am telling you) that the world we have collectively created the world we live in is one where very shortly after the one you love diesyou will feel like you have b...

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Broken Open

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 06, 2014 0 Comments
We think that we are broken and maybe we are and maybe we aren’t (really) but that topic is for a different day.We are most certainly broken open.Broken openbecause someone we love dearly died.And this deaththis onewas not part o...

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What I Know About Cancer. Today.

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 03, 2014 3 Comments
Cancer. Not my wife Trici who died in 1999 or our first-born child our daughter Erin who died in 1990 but my oldest son Rorywho diedat the age of 13 in 2005from a brain cancercalled glioblastoma multiforme.A kind of can...

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The Truth About Crying

Posted by Tom Zuba on October 02, 2014 0 Comments
From a very early agethe world has told usover and over and overagainthat it's not okay to cry.That crying is a sign of weakness.That there is shame in crying.That people who cry are "less than."We wear bracelets(some of us)that say LiveStrongbeli...

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"Everyone Grieves Differently." Really?

Posted by Tom Zuba on September 30, 2014 2 Comments
“Everyone grieves differently.”“No one should tell me how to grieve.”“There isn’t a right way to grieve and a wrong way to grieve.”Every day you can read these statements and different versions of these statements all over the internet.  They are ...

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Loving Rory

Posted by Tom Zuba on February 22, 2014 1 Comment
Not sure that I’ve ever written about this before.My son Rory was due on July 18, 1991one yearto the daythat his older sister Erindied suddenly.His mom, my wife, Tricisaid“No way.I will simply not have my second childbornon the anniversary of the ...

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